The first time I met Dan I was impressed that he took the time to talk to me and make me feel immediately comfortable. He had the ability always make people feel comfortable around him. Dan had the talent to be able to converse with you and be completely engaged. He always kept his eyes on yours and was attententive to you. Always making you feel that he was interested in you and what you were sharing even if it was not something that he was probably interested in.
Dan was one of the people that I enjoyed conversing with the most. I loved to hear his insights into the gospel. He had such a broad knowledge into scripture and its meaning that he was a great teacher. But surprisingly, he never used this knowledge to lift himself above others or to make them feel inferior because their understanding of the gospel was much smaller.
I always admired how much of a hands on father Dan was. He spent time with all of his children and he loved them and they knew it.
Dan was not afraid to work hard in all areas of his life. Several times my family benefited from his hard work and service. Both times that we moved, there were Dan and Amy who showed up first and then did not leave until the work was done. While he was there he was never impatient or in a hurry to get his time in so that he could move on to other things. Once again he made us feel like we were important in his life and that he was happy to be a part of it.
I miss Dan’s laugh. He laughed out loud and it was one of the best things to hear. Sunday dinners at the Erekson’s always became more fun when Dan and Amy were there to laugh. It was always fun and exciting to hear it take on things at the dinner table.
I will always miss Dan and feel incredibly grateful that I had the opportunity to know him and learn from him in such a short time. I am glad that he will be forever part of my family. I love him.
Lovingly, until we meet again,
Carol and Spencer Erekson
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
It is the Christmas Season A Time for Joy
It is the Christmas Season a time for joy. I am feeling a deep gratitude of joy from all of Dan’s friends who have responded to this blog. You have brought our family comfort and joy in recalling shared memories. Your expressions of love have supported us in our difficult separation. We miss Dan, his contagious smile, his love for learning, his loyalty, and his constant willingness to help our family. In times of loneliness I try to remember not, “Why was he taken so young?” but rather, “Why was I so blessed to have him for my son for forty one years?” It is my privilege to be Dan’s Mother!
When Dan was about nine years old, all of the children were telling us what gift they wanted Santa to bring them. Dan didn’t respond (which wasn’t very much like Dan), then he answered by saying, “I really don’t want a gift.” He kept his stand the entire season.
On Christmas morning Santa brought the children many gifts, but there was nothing for Dan. Even he seemed surprised. He did have a full sock. As usual, the children, one at a time, emptied their socks. Dan, being the oldest, was last. It seemed to me we had been waiting forever. In the toe of his sock was a note telling him to go look in the barn. I can’t remember Dan ever moving that fast! In the barn was “Ginger” his own horse with a big red ribbon around her neck, and a small boy with a huge smile also around “Ginger’s” neck. Dan’s gift was perfect in every way!
Now, we must wait for the greatest gift of all-Eternal Life. It was hard waiting Christmas morning. It is hard waiting for our Greatest Gift, to be an eternal family together forever. Jesus made a great sacrifice to give us this Gift. We must live the commandments and be worthy of the Gift. I try each day to live my life so that I am worthy to be united with Dan again. What a reunion it will be! I am so grateful for the Savior’s Gift to all of us.
Love,
Mom
When Dan was about nine years old, all of the children were telling us what gift they wanted Santa to bring them. Dan didn’t respond (which wasn’t very much like Dan), then he answered by saying, “I really don’t want a gift.” He kept his stand the entire season.
On Christmas morning Santa brought the children many gifts, but there was nothing for Dan. Even he seemed surprised. He did have a full sock. As usual, the children, one at a time, emptied their socks. Dan, being the oldest, was last. It seemed to me we had been waiting forever. In the toe of his sock was a note telling him to go look in the barn. I can’t remember Dan ever moving that fast! In the barn was “Ginger” his own horse with a big red ribbon around her neck, and a small boy with a huge smile also around “Ginger’s” neck. Dan’s gift was perfect in every way!
Now, we must wait for the greatest gift of all-Eternal Life. It was hard waiting Christmas morning. It is hard waiting for our Greatest Gift, to be an eternal family together forever. Jesus made a great sacrifice to give us this Gift. We must live the commandments and be worthy of the Gift. I try each day to live my life so that I am worthy to be united with Dan again. What a reunion it will be! I am so grateful for the Savior’s Gift to all of us.
Love,
Mom
Monday, December 7, 2009
Lovingly Remembering our Son-in-law, Daniel Spencer Howells
Knowing just which memory to choose is very challenging when we have been so affected by most of Dan’s life as our son-in-law. He brought to our family a strong background in the Gospel of Jesus Christ and continued to build on that as he became a husband, father, college graduate, seminary teacher and principal, Bishop, good friend to young and old, and filled countless roles in all aspects of his life.
Dan’s impact on the lives of Allen and Mardy Erekson started as our daughter Amy began to date Dan. On their first date they were accompanied by Dan’s father Spencer Howells. Later we had a party at our home with Amy and some of her high school friends and Dan was one of the invited guest. It was obvious to us that Dan had an interest in Amy because of his reactions during some of the party games. All very positive, of course!
Dan served a full time mission to New Zealand. He was very focused in the work he had undertaken. We had attended his farewell with Amy and also his homecoming when he was honorably released. Amy had been dating others while attending BYU during Dan’s mission. One of her persistent dates had become quite serious about her, but the question of Dan kept arising. Mom Mardy had a strong impression Amy should hold back on any commitment until Dan returned from his mission. The impression was providential as far as we were concerned!
Dan was just as focused upon his return home and prepared to ask for Amy’s hand in marriage. Allen received a phone call at his office from Dan asking if he could talk to him. Dan was with Amy in his car down on the street by Allen’s office building. Amy didn’t know for sure what was transpiring, but Dan asked Allen for permission to marry Amy. He promised to love and take care of her forever. With Allen’s permission Dan left and took Amy to what became their favorite spot on the Howells family ranch up on Thousand Peaks. They rode to “their spot” on horseback and Dan got down on his knees and proposed. Amy said yes!
During the planning for a June wedding in the Salt Lake Temple, the two families became much better acquainted. The date of June 29, 1989, was decided on by the couple. One of the decisions to be made was regarding the wedding cake. When asked what they would like, Dan spoke up and said, “I will make the wedding cake.” Both mothers replied that a groom’s cake would be nice. Dan responded, “No, I want to make THE wedding cake!” When asked by the parents if he had ever made a wedding cake before he answered, “No, and I don’t remember ever having make a cake before, but it can’t be that hard!”
About two weeks before the wedding, Dan and his best man and best friend, Dave Larson, baked many cakes at Dan’s house. Lots of them and all kinds (packaged mixes, of course!) When asked about this experience in later years, Dan said they made many cakes and not all of them turned out so, he and Dave used them as discs and threw them across the creek. Those who attended the reception or saw pictures will recall that the wedding cake was multi-tiered and beautiful, decorated with real flowers and red roses and a band of ivy. And it tasted great! Dan’s secret was having conferred with his gifted, experienced aunt who gave assistance in the final assembling process.
This experience of the wedding cake was just the beginning of a life filled with lots of do-it-yourself kinds of opportunities that Dan enjoyed doing. Nothing was too much of a challenge. He thrived on trying something new. He built furniture for their home; built one of their homes in Arizona; did most of the remodeling of their Peoa home; helped build the family cabin in Thousand Peaks; started a business with his brother, Paul and taught us and his family much with his great attitude and willingness to work hard and accomplish his goals.
We owe Dan a great debt of love and gratitude for his influence in our lives and especially for the wonderful six grandchildren that bless our lives, Kathryn, Mary, Hannah, Spencer, Shad and Caleb. We are grateful for the love he has for Amy and the children and their eternal bond as a family.
Continue your good works in the Gospel, Dan, and we’ll see you in a far better place!
Much love and appreciation,
Allen & Mardy Erekson
Dan’s impact on the lives of Allen and Mardy Erekson started as our daughter Amy began to date Dan. On their first date they were accompanied by Dan’s father Spencer Howells. Later we had a party at our home with Amy and some of her high school friends and Dan was one of the invited guest. It was obvious to us that Dan had an interest in Amy because of his reactions during some of the party games. All very positive, of course!
Dan served a full time mission to New Zealand. He was very focused in the work he had undertaken. We had attended his farewell with Amy and also his homecoming when he was honorably released. Amy had been dating others while attending BYU during Dan’s mission. One of her persistent dates had become quite serious about her, but the question of Dan kept arising. Mom Mardy had a strong impression Amy should hold back on any commitment until Dan returned from his mission. The impression was providential as far as we were concerned!
Dan was just as focused upon his return home and prepared to ask for Amy’s hand in marriage. Allen received a phone call at his office from Dan asking if he could talk to him. Dan was with Amy in his car down on the street by Allen’s office building. Amy didn’t know for sure what was transpiring, but Dan asked Allen for permission to marry Amy. He promised to love and take care of her forever. With Allen’s permission Dan left and took Amy to what became their favorite spot on the Howells family ranch up on Thousand Peaks. They rode to “their spot” on horseback and Dan got down on his knees and proposed. Amy said yes!
During the planning for a June wedding in the Salt Lake Temple, the two families became much better acquainted. The date of June 29, 1989, was decided on by the couple. One of the decisions to be made was regarding the wedding cake. When asked what they would like, Dan spoke up and said, “I will make the wedding cake.” Both mothers replied that a groom’s cake would be nice. Dan responded, “No, I want to make THE wedding cake!” When asked by the parents if he had ever made a wedding cake before he answered, “No, and I don’t remember ever having make a cake before, but it can’t be that hard!”
About two weeks before the wedding, Dan and his best man and best friend, Dave Larson, baked many cakes at Dan’s house. Lots of them and all kinds (packaged mixes, of course!) When asked about this experience in later years, Dan said they made many cakes and not all of them turned out so, he and Dave used them as discs and threw them across the creek. Those who attended the reception or saw pictures will recall that the wedding cake was multi-tiered and beautiful, decorated with real flowers and red roses and a band of ivy. And it tasted great! Dan’s secret was having conferred with his gifted, experienced aunt who gave assistance in the final assembling process.
This experience of the wedding cake was just the beginning of a life filled with lots of do-it-yourself kinds of opportunities that Dan enjoyed doing. Nothing was too much of a challenge. He thrived on trying something new. He built furniture for their home; built one of their homes in Arizona; did most of the remodeling of their Peoa home; helped build the family cabin in Thousand Peaks; started a business with his brother, Paul and taught us and his family much with his great attitude and willingness to work hard and accomplish his goals.
We owe Dan a great debt of love and gratitude for his influence in our lives and especially for the wonderful six grandchildren that bless our lives, Kathryn, Mary, Hannah, Spencer, Shad and Caleb. We are grateful for the love he has for Amy and the children and their eternal bond as a family.
Continue your good works in the Gospel, Dan, and we’ll see you in a far better place!
Much love and appreciation,
Allen & Mardy Erekson
Amy, Kathryn, Mary, Hannah, Spencer, Shad and Caleb,
I am so grateful for each and every one of you. We are truly blessed to know and understand the Lord's plan for us which includes families and the best part of it is the forever part. I have watched Amy and Dan over the years submit willingly to everything the Lord saw fit to inflict upon them. And they did it humbly. This trial will not be any different. I have watched as you have gone to your knees to seek the will of the father, in this one of the greatest of trials, and then turn with all your might and do what is required to continue in his path. Each of you have been a light to those around you and have reminded us where to turn in our times of need. My testimony has been strengthened by your examples. Kathryn who is willing to walk a walk of righteousness in difficult years. Mary who serves as a strength to her mother. Hannah who sees the lords hand in her life daily. Spencer who has a desire to emulate his fathers example of leadership in the home. Shad who willingly submits and continues on in spite of hardships. Caleb who emulates love and a tender heart. Amy who under the most difficult of circumstances continues to emulate faith, hope and charity. I feel so privileged to know each one of you and love you dearly. I know that the Lord will lighten our burdens that even we will not feel them upon our backs. He can comfort us in times of need, his atonement promises to ease the pain of death, sorrow and suffering and promises us joy as we put our trust in him and his plan for each of us.
I have no doubt that Dan trained his family in truth and righteousness and because of this I know they will be blessed. His desire to know more about the Lord and his purposes inspired many including myself to want to know more. His was a wonderful example of discipleship. I am truly grateful for the time we spent together and look forward to a joyful reunion.
All my love,
Kristen Mikesell (Sister-in-law)
I am so grateful for each and every one of you. We are truly blessed to know and understand the Lord's plan for us which includes families and the best part of it is the forever part. I have watched Amy and Dan over the years submit willingly to everything the Lord saw fit to inflict upon them. And they did it humbly. This trial will not be any different. I have watched as you have gone to your knees to seek the will of the father, in this one of the greatest of trials, and then turn with all your might and do what is required to continue in his path. Each of you have been a light to those around you and have reminded us where to turn in our times of need. My testimony has been strengthened by your examples. Kathryn who is willing to walk a walk of righteousness in difficult years. Mary who serves as a strength to her mother. Hannah who sees the lords hand in her life daily. Spencer who has a desire to emulate his fathers example of leadership in the home. Shad who willingly submits and continues on in spite of hardships. Caleb who emulates love and a tender heart. Amy who under the most difficult of circumstances continues to emulate faith, hope and charity. I feel so privileged to know each one of you and love you dearly. I know that the Lord will lighten our burdens that even we will not feel them upon our backs. He can comfort us in times of need, his atonement promises to ease the pain of death, sorrow and suffering and promises us joy as we put our trust in him and his plan for each of us.
I have no doubt that Dan trained his family in truth and righteousness and because of this I know they will be blessed. His desire to know more about the Lord and his purposes inspired many including myself to want to know more. His was a wonderful example of discipleship. I am truly grateful for the time we spent together and look forward to a joyful reunion.
All my love,
Kristen Mikesell (Sister-in-law)
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Dan Howells
How do you present an understanding of someone like Dan Howells. He spent his life caring and loving for everyone he could.
He was kind and loving to all. We weren’t his Bishop, but we know that he blessed the lives of all those who had that blessing. We were not his students that spent so much time learning the gospel and learning how to live their lives to bless those around them. We did not learn to build a house like he did, but we were blessed to see what he did to build and bless his family.
We are so blessed to now see the blessings of his wonderful family, to see their desires to life in righteousness and to serve others.
Dan blessed all of us with his example and his desire to serve The Lord.
Thank you, Dan, for being who you are and blessing our lives.
Uncle Alma and Aunt Lou
How do you present an understanding of someone like Dan Howells. He spent his life caring and loving for everyone he could.
He was kind and loving to all. We weren’t his Bishop, but we know that he blessed the lives of all those who had that blessing. We were not his students that spent so much time learning the gospel and learning how to live their lives to bless those around them. We did not learn to build a house like he did, but we were blessed to see what he did to build and bless his family.
We are so blessed to now see the blessings of his wonderful family, to see their desires to life in righteousness and to serve others.
Dan blessed all of us with his example and his desire to serve The Lord.
Thank you, Dan, for being who you are and blessing our lives.
Uncle Alma and Aunt Lou
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
When I was attending Utah State many years ago, Dan and Amy had just had Kathryn and were both finishing up their degrees. As a student there, living away from home, some things were very hard to deal with on a day in and day out basis. (Roommates who did not get along, finding my own voice and dealing with the death of a grandparent). I spent quite a bit of time in their home and was always welcomed with open arms. Dan always had a smile on his face and would always have something positive, funny and sometimes a little quirky to share. I always knew that I could come away uplifted after airing any roommate or professor drama. Thank you for giving me a safe place to air my stresses and lots of laughs to relieve the stress. You truly exemplified the love our Savior has for each of us. I will always be eternally grateful for both of you and your selflessness. Sharon Nelson, Tooele, Ut.
Monday, September 21, 2009
Eternal Family
(Dan,) Amy, Kathryn, Mary, Hannah, Spencer, Shad and Caleb,
We are so glad you are part of our eternal family! We will miss Dan so very much over the next years, but we know he will always be part of our family. We cherish the memories we have of being with Uncle Dan - his wonderful laugh, friendly smile, great hugs, fun teasing, and general feeling of love for us. We love each of you and want you to know we are there for you in any way you may need us! Love,
Scott, Marielle, Erek, Matthew, Jacob, Ethan, Damon and Mari
I was lucky to be "Amy's little sister" all those fun years that Amy and Dan hung out in High School, and then be the third wheel when Dan got back from his mission - watching them fall madly in love! Dan was always such a fun-loving guy with a combined deep sense of seeking truth and knowledge. He was a caring brother-in-law who I could look up to as someone who loved the gospel, loved his family, and truly loved his wife. We had fun laughs and great talks, and I will miss him dearly. I want his parents and siblings to know how grateful I am that they shared Dan with our family - Amy is lucky to have such amazing in-laws. I love you Amy! Thank you for bringing Dan into our family and sharing him with us! We will truly miss him, but we know we will see him again and he will always be a part of our eternal family! Love, Marielle
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Dan and Amy-Best Friends
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Words are not enough; but I can't not try- my love runs deep. It's hard to even say how grateful I am to have been Dan's wife and companion-best friend- for the last twenty years. It has been the most extraordinary journey I have ever had; harder than anything I have ever done; more exhillerating and more rewarding than anything I have ever experienced; Dan taught me how to live. He knew that facing opposition and the difficult things that came our way and learning from them (whether we succeeded or failed) is something that strengthens us and brings joy in life. And truly that is succeeding! For our children this has been indespensible. He was far from perfect, and he'd be the first one to admit that. But one of the things that is so amazing about Dan is that he was valiant in studying and seeking for truth and then standing for the things he believed were true. If he was aware that he was doing something wrong then he would figure out how and change it. When he would come up against something that didn't seem to "jive" with what was in his mind and heart, with what he knew and believed, and he would not hesitate to seek out the answer to that problem or issue. Dan wasn't afraid to try. But he also knew that as a mortal man he needed heaven's help and sought to have the Lord's spirit to always guide him. Though he had fears, he chose faith over fear and did not allow his fears to stop him from persuing what he knew was right and true. The fear always diminished and/or disappeared. Dan faced his imperfections and persued standing square before the Lord, accountable and clean. Dan's love for his Heavenly Father, his Savior, his family and his friends is his motivation in everything he does. He is one of my greatest examples and heros. We have had many pieces of heaven in our home and in our lives throughout our time together and I miss him deeply. I have all hope and faith that the atonement of Jesus Christ will take this really good yet imperfect family and plop us right back together at some point in the future and that we will proceed together to all happiness and perfection. May the Lord strengthen me so I can continue to truly live during the next period of time while we are apart. I love you Dan! - Families are forever... -Amy
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
I remember
I remember Dan. I accidentally found this site, and was shocked by the news. You see, I don't know Dans' life history or his family. In fact, I don't even remember if Dan had a family or kids or not, but when I found this blog, I needed to write.
I think Dan was either a student/student teacher, or very early in his career when he was my seminary teacher. It was at Westwood High School, and the year was 1992-1993. I was struggling as a youth finding my place in the world, and I very clearly remember that Dan and I shared a powerful connection. I actually remembered him many times throughout my life, because you see it was his powerful testimony of the Savior that helped me finish school and desire to serve a mission. I eventually served a mission in the early 90's in the former Soviet Union and was married in the temple with my sweetheart I met in Russia years later. This is so strange.... because I actually thought of Dan about a month ago and couldn't understand why, I used an example about him in a talk in the Russian branch of the church in SLC - it has been so many years, but I can vividly remember his smile and teary eyes as he looked into mine and told me the lord loves you and will send you on a mission! Wow.
Dan did impact my life, and if I'm the only student from his early years as a teacher that comments on here, I want you to know that Dan was a man of God, for he helped me turn to the Lord and impacted not only my life but those I have served myself all over the world!
Robert Maxwell
I think Dan was either a student/student teacher, or very early in his career when he was my seminary teacher. It was at Westwood High School, and the year was 1992-1993. I was struggling as a youth finding my place in the world, and I very clearly remember that Dan and I shared a powerful connection. I actually remembered him many times throughout my life, because you see it was his powerful testimony of the Savior that helped me finish school and desire to serve a mission. I eventually served a mission in the early 90's in the former Soviet Union and was married in the temple with my sweetheart I met in Russia years later. This is so strange.... because I actually thought of Dan about a month ago and couldn't understand why, I used an example about him in a talk in the Russian branch of the church in SLC - it has been so many years, but I can vividly remember his smile and teary eyes as he looked into mine and told me the lord loves you and will send you on a mission! Wow.
Dan did impact my life, and if I'm the only student from his early years as a teacher that comments on here, I want you to know that Dan was a man of God, for he helped me turn to the Lord and impacted not only my life but those I have served myself all over the world!
Robert Maxwell
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Best Seminary Teacher EVER
Bishop Howells was my seminary teacher for 3.2 of my 4 years at CDO (and you have no idea how mad I was when I found out he wouldn't be there for all 4 years). I don't know if I've ever met a more humble, gentle man. I will never, ever forget how his lessons impacted my life. The ones I remember in particular were sweet, solemn occasions where the class was invited to share their testimonies. He had a gift for bringing the Spirit to a discussion that I've rarely seen paralleled.
I know how much he cared for each one of his students (there's no way he would have put up with all of us otherwise). One of the rare times I saw him get upset was when Laura managed to break the microwave (again) by trying to microwave her shoe (didn't work). But he could never stay mad long--he was so naturally happy.
The lessons he taught me in seminary laid a firm foundation for my testimony. I am eternally grateful for his patience, long-suffering, and absolutely pure charity. My one regret is that I didn't pay nearly as much attention as I should have. If there were some way to go back, I would just sit and listen for hours, absorbing everything. I still remember how I teared up when I realized he had come back for our seminary graduation--it didn't matter that he'd ditched out on my senior year; he was still my seminary teacher and the occasion wasn't complete without him.
I hope that his family can understand how much he touched my life and how I will never forget him. They will be in my prayers.
Megan (Mikesell) Blood
I know how much he cared for each one of his students (there's no way he would have put up with all of us otherwise). One of the rare times I saw him get upset was when Laura managed to break the microwave (again) by trying to microwave her shoe (didn't work). But he could never stay mad long--he was so naturally happy.
The lessons he taught me in seminary laid a firm foundation for my testimony. I am eternally grateful for his patience, long-suffering, and absolutely pure charity. My one regret is that I didn't pay nearly as much attention as I should have. If there were some way to go back, I would just sit and listen for hours, absorbing everything. I still remember how I teared up when I realized he had come back for our seminary graduation--it didn't matter that he'd ditched out on my senior year; he was still my seminary teacher and the occasion wasn't complete without him.
I hope that his family can understand how much he touched my life and how I will never forget him. They will be in my prayers.
Megan (Mikesell) Blood
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Jill Clonts Memories of Dan Howells
Dan and Amy lived near my family and me for several years in Gilbert, Arizona. Amy and I are cousins and when I first moved to Arizona with my family, I had no idea just how wonderful it would be to have this piece of my family so close to all of us. We were there for each other in all the ways a family can and should be. We tended each others children, we went to the Temple together, we attended baptisms, baby blessings; all the important times we would have loved to have all of our families there, but since that could not be, we were there to support each other. I had been close to Amy and her sisters growing up, but we grew closer than we ever had been those years in Arizona. When Dan and Amy moved to Tucson, our families support of each other didn't end, it just changed a bit. Temple trips were planned way in advance and usually were an over-night event or I got to tend the newest member of the Howells' clan. General Conferences were my favorite. Dan and Amy and all the children would come for the entire weekend. The children would play so well together and we could relax and take in the words of the prophets. It was on these sacred occasions that I had the privilege of getting to know Dan better. We would watch conference while our children played. Then, after the sessions had ended, we would talk together about our thoughts, feelings and impressions of what was said. Dan had many amazing and touching insights. Two of these insights have stayed with me all these years.
The first is when Dan spoke of his feelings about "self esteem". He said that he felt that there is really no such thing as self esteem. That, if you truly believe in Christ and have faith in Him, that you succeed and do well in life because of your faith in Christ, not because of faith in yourself or self esteem. I have pondered this for years and have come to agree, in many ways with this faithful insight. It is my faith in Christ that motivates me in many, if not all, my decisions in life. If I begin to focus on me, I lose sight of what really matters; faith in Christ. It seems to me that what Dan was saying is that self esteem is selfish, worldly and not what the Lord intended. It is truly our "nothingness" that helps us to become worthy of feeling esteem. This nothingness brings us to faith in Christ and as a result, we feel better about ourselves, we're blessed with gifts of the Spirit and thus are more successful in life. I can see how self esteem is a great misnomer indeed. I certainly do not do this subject justice, as Dan could do. I did learn much from this insight and it has been a guide for me when I feel "less than" in the eyes of the world. I think that Dan felt that many of his students could benefit from seeing themselves through the eyes of the Savior instead of the eyes of their peers or the world around them. This is just one of many manifestations of Dan's love for his students, his desire for them to have happy, successful, faith filled lives and Dan's ability to see all of us through spiritual eyes.
The other prophetic insight Dan had was his view of the Second Coming of the Savior. Dan spoke of how there truly is The "Second Coming" when the Savior will come again to the earth and rule and reign. However, there is also a second coming for each of us, personally. That when we leave this earth, we have our own private second coming as we get to meet the Savior face to face and stand before him. Dan spoke of how important it was for him (and all of us) to prepare each day, to stand before the Savior and make that second coming a wonderful, joyous occasion. I know for Dan, that his own private second coming, was as beautiful and joyous as he had hoped.
I love the Howells family. I know that they have all been prepared for the passing of Dan. I know that the Lord loves this family and will bring them peace, joy and roll on the floor, can't stop laughing, kind of happiness.
I feel privileged to know Dan and Amy. I feel blessed to have had them in my home, to serve them and to be served by them. I am so thankful to my Heavenly Father that He put Dan and Amy in my life when He did. That they were able to touch me and my children in such a way that we will never forget nor be the same. I love you Amy, my sister-cousin and I am in awe of the powerful woman of God that you are. I love all of you children. You possess a power of heart and spirit that shines through in all you do, in all you say and in the way you live your lives every day. I pray the choicest of blessings upon all of you and know that the Savior's Atonement will bring you all healing and peace.
Love always,
Jill Clonts :)
Gilbert, Arizona
The first is when Dan spoke of his feelings about "self esteem". He said that he felt that there is really no such thing as self esteem. That, if you truly believe in Christ and have faith in Him, that you succeed and do well in life because of your faith in Christ, not because of faith in yourself or self esteem. I have pondered this for years and have come to agree, in many ways with this faithful insight. It is my faith in Christ that motivates me in many, if not all, my decisions in life. If I begin to focus on me, I lose sight of what really matters; faith in Christ. It seems to me that what Dan was saying is that self esteem is selfish, worldly and not what the Lord intended. It is truly our "nothingness" that helps us to become worthy of feeling esteem. This nothingness brings us to faith in Christ and as a result, we feel better about ourselves, we're blessed with gifts of the Spirit and thus are more successful in life. I can see how self esteem is a great misnomer indeed. I certainly do not do this subject justice, as Dan could do. I did learn much from this insight and it has been a guide for me when I feel "less than" in the eyes of the world. I think that Dan felt that many of his students could benefit from seeing themselves through the eyes of the Savior instead of the eyes of their peers or the world around them. This is just one of many manifestations of Dan's love for his students, his desire for them to have happy, successful, faith filled lives and Dan's ability to see all of us through spiritual eyes.
The other prophetic insight Dan had was his view of the Second Coming of the Savior. Dan spoke of how there truly is The "Second Coming" when the Savior will come again to the earth and rule and reign. However, there is also a second coming for each of us, personally. That when we leave this earth, we have our own private second coming as we get to meet the Savior face to face and stand before him. Dan spoke of how important it was for him (and all of us) to prepare each day, to stand before the Savior and make that second coming a wonderful, joyous occasion. I know for Dan, that his own private second coming, was as beautiful and joyous as he had hoped.
I love the Howells family. I know that they have all been prepared for the passing of Dan. I know that the Lord loves this family and will bring them peace, joy and roll on the floor, can't stop laughing, kind of happiness.
I feel privileged to know Dan and Amy. I feel blessed to have had them in my home, to serve them and to be served by them. I am so thankful to my Heavenly Father that He put Dan and Amy in my life when He did. That they were able to touch me and my children in such a way that we will never forget nor be the same. I love you Amy, my sister-cousin and I am in awe of the powerful woman of God that you are. I love all of you children. You possess a power of heart and spirit that shines through in all you do, in all you say and in the way you live your lives every day. I pray the choicest of blessings upon all of you and know that the Savior's Atonement will bring you all healing and peace.
Love always,
Jill Clonts :)
Gilbert, Arizona
Sunday, May 10, 2009
My First Best Friend Ever
Dear Amy and family,
Just wanted to write and tell you how much we love you guys. Seems like many people have been writing about "Dan" but to me he will always be Danny. Many wonderful memories of my childhood where made possible because of Danny. Hardly a day would go by that the two of us didn't have some sort of activity going on at his family's old farm. This little piece of heaven was a virtual wonderland for two young boys. From riding his horse Ginger to chasing chickens...sorry parents if that was wrong. Good friends are hard to come by but Danny was as loyal as they come. I have been going through some of my old cards and have found many thank you cards that simply said "Thanks for being my friend..Love Danny." I also found some old pictures of us from the time we played baseball together and my birthday...don't get jealous about the hats.
I can not wait till I see him again and we can laugh about those wonderful days and great times we had together. Danny is the type of person who makes you want to be a better person yourself. His love for everyone was great because he always loved. This was how he was from the very first time I met my first best friend ever. We love you Amy and kids. What a wonderful family you have. May the Lord bless you always.
Todd Goff
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Strickland family - tucson | 11:46 p.m. March 30, 2009
We love and remember Dan Howells today as a humble man of many gifts and talents. His gentle ways as our Bishop in Tucson will long be remembered. We love the strength and goodness he instilled in our seminary-aged youth through his example and teachings as a CES teacher. How agonizing and sad for us that he is taken on to the other side a bit earlier than we expected, but we know that no departure here is an unexpected arrival there. And we are grateful for the strength of the Gospel teachings that comfort our aching hearts tonight. We miss you, Dan. God be with you till we meet again, and we pray for your special wife and wonderful children that the days and weeks ahead may be filled with the peace of the Spirit and many loving arms and hands to lift and encourage. Amy, please know of our love and prayers in your behalf as we plead to our Father in Heaven that you and your children will feel His strength.
Brad Slentz | 8:32 a.m. March 31, 2009
Dan Howells was a great seminary teacher who helped grow and cultivate my testimony during that time in life when is seems to be questioned the most. He was also a wonderful Bishop who helped me and my family in so many ways. I know that he has touched so many lives and will be sorely missed. Our prayers and love go out to his family at this difficult time.
Jennifer Nicholls Swegle | 9:58 a.m. March 31, 2009
I have very fond memories of Bro. Howells. He was with me all 4 years of high school, became my bishop, then taught at the LDS institute at The University of Arizona where I was attending. I miss his sweet family, but will never forget how they all have touched my life. God bless you Sis. Howells and all your children. What a wonderful man he was! He helped strengthen my testimony and was a welcomed additional father figure in my life. He had great passion for the gospel. Our prayers are with you and your family.
john and chere romney | 11:06 a.m. March 31, 2009
We love the Howells Family. Spence and Ann, Dan's parents have so often spoken so lovingly of him and his outstanding family. Our love goes out to all of your precious family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.. Love John and Chere Romney
Howard Norton | 12:33 p.m. March 31, 2009
One of the really, really good guys in this world. I will miss the times up on the Salmon River with him. He will also be missed by the thousands he has taught in seminary, positions he has held and as a Bishop that he has had such an amazing impact on. Our love to Amy, their wonderful kids and his parents and family.
A great loss to the world, an incredible gain in Heaven! If the Lord was needing help up there, He definitely choose well.
Christopher Summerhays | 12:51 p.m. March 31, 2009
Bro. Howells -
You will always be remembered as a loving, caring person. May God be with your family at this tragic time. You are loved and will be most certainly missed. Thanks for all the great years in seminary, you were great! God be with you 'til we meet again.
Jeffrey Prottas | 2:55 p.m. March 31, 2009
Danny you will be truly missed. Amy, you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers!
Suzanne Bolliger Giblette | 3:27 p.m. March 31, 2009
Oh Amy! My heart and prayers goes out to you at this time of loss. You were always such a strong person and one to quickly help others, now others can show you their strength. Dan was a great guy and always a terrific example. You will be in my thoughts through these next days.
Kristy McRae Witt | 5:02 p.m. March 31, 2009
Words cannot adequately describe the depth of my love and sympathy for Howells and Erekson families. Dan was (and still is) such an amazing guy...so down to earth, and so much fun to be around...such an infectious laugh and smile. Amy is simply incredible, and has been such a beautiful example and such a good friend throughout my life....she has incredible strength, courage and faith. Please know that our thoughts and prayers remain constant with you. May the Lord bless you with comfort and tender mercies continually. I love you.
Bruce and Carol Thompson | 7:34 p.m. March 31, 2009
Oh Amy, we are so sorry for your loss. We love your family. You are in our prayers. I appreciate everything you and Dan have done for us. Let us know if there is anything we can do.
Wade Weston | 11:20 p.m. March 31, 2009
I will always remember Danny's great example of humility, kindness and integrity. I hope he is able to see and comprehend the full measure of his earthly life and what great influence for good he has and will continue to have on this earth.
John & Shawnell Larsen | 12:44 a.m. April 1, 2009
Dan and Amy are the cream of the crop. Fortunately an all-knowing, loving Father who reigns supreme will most assuredly enable Dan to serve to his utmost capabilities as He continuously watches over the family here on earth. We'll greatly miss Dan and all that he was and is.
Randi Vest | 9:59 a.m. April 1, 2009
Dan was my seminary teacher and my bishop through some of the most important years of my life. I went to him for guidance during the rough patches of my adolescence, he was always there eager to listen and to help. He never stopped believing in me even when I stopped believing in myself. I have never met a man that had so much patience and love for the world, as he did. I will miss him! His family is in my prayers.
Nicole DeWitt Boyle | 11:15 a.m. April 1, 2009
Brother Howells was a wonderful seminary teacher. He was loved by everyone. He was a friend at a cross-roads for many. Seeing his picture on the Deseret News brought back so many memories. He always had a smile and always found a way to be upbeat. His love and enthusiasm were contagious. He served so many so well, and we are now all praying for the sweet family he left behind.
Daymon & Suzanne Leonhardt | 9:20 p.m. April 1, 2009
We are just heartsick to lose a friend like Dan. We are going to miss that great man. Amy, we love you and are praying for you and the kids. We wish we could be there to help.
Michelle McLaws Knight | 7:18 a.m. April 2, 2009
I remember Brother Howells as a happy, energetic, wonderful seminary teacher. He influenced so many for good. May his family find peace during this very sad time.
Allan Blankstrom | 11:33 p.m. April 6, 2009
I had the honor of being a neighbor to Dan and Amy and the kids and was welcomed into their home and hearts many times for dinner or for family night. The experience I took with me from their heart and home, their love and attention to me , just a neighbor has and will carry me through life a better man.
This has brought me to my knees humbly. Amy I miss you and offer all the strength I could ever send through the space between us. My eyes are closed and praying for you and the children.
Ian Katzman and Family Phoenix, AZ 1 Apr 1, 2009
Our prayers are with the family.
We love and remember Dan Howells today as a humble man of many gifts and talents. His gentle ways as our Bishop in Tucson will long be remembered. We love the strength and goodness he instilled in our seminary-aged youth through his example and teachings as a CES teacher. How agonizing and sad for us that he is taken on to the other side a bit earlier than we expected, but we know that no departure here is an unexpected arrival there. And we are grateful for the strength of the Gospel teachings that comfort our aching hearts tonight. We miss you, Dan. God be with you till we meet again, and we pray for your special wife and wonderful children that the days and weeks ahead may be filled with the peace of the Spirit and many loving arms and hands to lift and encourage. Amy, please know of our love and prayers in your behalf as we plead to our Father in Heaven that you and your children will feel His strength.
Brad Slentz | 8:32 a.m. March 31, 2009
Dan Howells was a great seminary teacher who helped grow and cultivate my testimony during that time in life when is seems to be questioned the most. He was also a wonderful Bishop who helped me and my family in so many ways. I know that he has touched so many lives and will be sorely missed. Our prayers and love go out to his family at this difficult time.
Jennifer Nicholls Swegle | 9:58 a.m. March 31, 2009
I have very fond memories of Bro. Howells. He was with me all 4 years of high school, became my bishop, then taught at the LDS institute at The University of Arizona where I was attending. I miss his sweet family, but will never forget how they all have touched my life. God bless you Sis. Howells and all your children. What a wonderful man he was! He helped strengthen my testimony and was a welcomed additional father figure in my life. He had great passion for the gospel. Our prayers are with you and your family.
john and chere romney | 11:06 a.m. March 31, 2009
We love the Howells Family. Spence and Ann, Dan's parents have so often spoken so lovingly of him and his outstanding family. Our love goes out to all of your precious family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.. Love John and Chere Romney
Howard Norton | 12:33 p.m. March 31, 2009
One of the really, really good guys in this world. I will miss the times up on the Salmon River with him. He will also be missed by the thousands he has taught in seminary, positions he has held and as a Bishop that he has had such an amazing impact on. Our love to Amy, their wonderful kids and his parents and family.
A great loss to the world, an incredible gain in Heaven! If the Lord was needing help up there, He definitely choose well.
Christopher Summerhays | 12:51 p.m. March 31, 2009
Bro. Howells -
You will always be remembered as a loving, caring person. May God be with your family at this tragic time. You are loved and will be most certainly missed. Thanks for all the great years in seminary, you were great! God be with you 'til we meet again.
Jeffrey Prottas | 2:55 p.m. March 31, 2009
Danny you will be truly missed. Amy, you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers!
Suzanne Bolliger Giblette | 3:27 p.m. March 31, 2009
Oh Amy! My heart and prayers goes out to you at this time of loss. You were always such a strong person and one to quickly help others, now others can show you their strength. Dan was a great guy and always a terrific example. You will be in my thoughts through these next days.
Kristy McRae Witt | 5:02 p.m. March 31, 2009
Words cannot adequately describe the depth of my love and sympathy for Howells and Erekson families. Dan was (and still is) such an amazing guy...so down to earth, and so much fun to be around...such an infectious laugh and smile. Amy is simply incredible, and has been such a beautiful example and such a good friend throughout my life....she has incredible strength, courage and faith. Please know that our thoughts and prayers remain constant with you. May the Lord bless you with comfort and tender mercies continually. I love you.
Bruce and Carol Thompson | 7:34 p.m. March 31, 2009
Oh Amy, we are so sorry for your loss. We love your family. You are in our prayers. I appreciate everything you and Dan have done for us. Let us know if there is anything we can do.
Wade Weston | 11:20 p.m. March 31, 2009
I will always remember Danny's great example of humility, kindness and integrity. I hope he is able to see and comprehend the full measure of his earthly life and what great influence for good he has and will continue to have on this earth.
John & Shawnell Larsen | 12:44 a.m. April 1, 2009
Dan and Amy are the cream of the crop. Fortunately an all-knowing, loving Father who reigns supreme will most assuredly enable Dan to serve to his utmost capabilities as He continuously watches over the family here on earth. We'll greatly miss Dan and all that he was and is.
Randi Vest | 9:59 a.m. April 1, 2009
Dan was my seminary teacher and my bishop through some of the most important years of my life. I went to him for guidance during the rough patches of my adolescence, he was always there eager to listen and to help. He never stopped believing in me even when I stopped believing in myself. I have never met a man that had so much patience and love for the world, as he did. I will miss him! His family is in my prayers.
Nicole DeWitt Boyle | 11:15 a.m. April 1, 2009
Brother Howells was a wonderful seminary teacher. He was loved by everyone. He was a friend at a cross-roads for many. Seeing his picture on the Deseret News brought back so many memories. He always had a smile and always found a way to be upbeat. His love and enthusiasm were contagious. He served so many so well, and we are now all praying for the sweet family he left behind.
Daymon & Suzanne Leonhardt | 9:20 p.m. April 1, 2009
We are just heartsick to lose a friend like Dan. We are going to miss that great man. Amy, we love you and are praying for you and the kids. We wish we could be there to help.
Michelle McLaws Knight | 7:18 a.m. April 2, 2009
I remember Brother Howells as a happy, energetic, wonderful seminary teacher. He influenced so many for good. May his family find peace during this very sad time.
Allan Blankstrom | 11:33 p.m. April 6, 2009
I had the honor of being a neighbor to Dan and Amy and the kids and was welcomed into their home and hearts many times for dinner or for family night. The experience I took with me from their heart and home, their love and attention to me , just a neighbor has and will carry me through life a better man.
This has brought me to my knees humbly. Amy I miss you and offer all the strength I could ever send through the space between us. My eyes are closed and praying for you and the children.
Ian Katzman and Family Phoenix, AZ 1 Apr 1, 2009
Our prayers are with the family.
Monday, April 27, 2009
The River
There is something to be said about floating down the river. You get to nowhere faster than you want to and you really get to know those who are with you. The last river trip in July 2005 was no exception. The discussions with the Howells driving up and back are unforgettable, Spence was his usual charming self, Paul was coming into his own rite, Danny was still the teacher, Dax was quietly listening in and Kathryn became a good friend. (Dax sends his love from his mission in Brisbane Australia.)
You ask about Danny being the teacher; many years ago, Chris and I were the Young Single Adult Advisors for our ward and that included the duo of Danny and Dave. When they called us to that position, they told us we would be teaching them in Sunday School also. Well the teachers soon became the students and the students the teachers. What a great experience it was to learn from that class. And when Amy started coming with Danny, it wasn't hard to see that he had stars in his eyes and was going to start a whole new life.
We watched family closeness on that trip. We learned from example about family ties and love. I saw a closeness between a father and daughter that any parent would want to have and incredible bonding through three generations. This is one family that will definitely be together forever!
May Heavenly Father always bless the Howells family and may your memories of Dan be sweet and loving.
Howard, Christine and Dax Norton
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
More memories from Tucson
Dan Howells I can honestly say was one of the most influential people in my life. The amazing thing is that I know there are a lot of people that can say that about this wonderful man.
I just called him ‘Howells’ because not only was I fortunate enough to have him as my Bishop but as my seminary teacher as well. I was the one ALWAYS giving him a hard time and questioning EVERYTHING… As a teenager and still today I love to debate and question. That is usually what our seminary classes turned into, a debate, when we had to move on for the rest of the class I would stay so our debate (and usually my ignorant disagreement) would continue. He was so patient with me and even though I know I frustrated him on more than one occasion I know he loved it. It was something I needed to grow and he knew that.
I moved up to Anchorage Alaska almost two years ago, and haven’t seen or spoken to Howells in years, but he still affects my life and the way I think about things. His warming smile and love for his beautiful wife and children is something that I always looked up to and hope to recreate in my own home one day. The life lessons and human compassion that Howells carried and shared every day helped everyone that he was around grow to be a better person. I look forward when the day that I can thank him for all that he has done for me. Dan Howells has an astounding spirit and I can think of no one more fitting to help the Lord with his work in paradise.
I wrote this for a good friend of mine that passed away a few years ago but I find it just as fitting now as it was then:
*In the end*
Do not be sad for me
For now my soul is finally free
So not shed a tear
Because now I have nothing to fear
I have left the pain of this world behind
However these things I ask you to keep in mind
Never hid your feelings for someone
For you never know when their days are done
Treat each other with respect
Do not outcast the reject
Love each other the way that I loved you
With love you can make it through
I will be looking down on you always
Waiting through all the days
Until it is your turn to ascend
And we can meet again
With Much Love,
Nicole Dellerman
I just called him ‘Howells’ because not only was I fortunate enough to have him as my Bishop but as my seminary teacher as well. I was the one ALWAYS giving him a hard time and questioning EVERYTHING… As a teenager and still today I love to debate and question. That is usually what our seminary classes turned into, a debate, when we had to move on for the rest of the class I would stay so our debate (and usually my ignorant disagreement) would continue. He was so patient with me and even though I know I frustrated him on more than one occasion I know he loved it. It was something I needed to grow and he knew that.
I moved up to Anchorage Alaska almost two years ago, and haven’t seen or spoken to Howells in years, but he still affects my life and the way I think about things. His warming smile and love for his beautiful wife and children is something that I always looked up to and hope to recreate in my own home one day. The life lessons and human compassion that Howells carried and shared every day helped everyone that he was around grow to be a better person. I look forward when the day that I can thank him for all that he has done for me. Dan Howells has an astounding spirit and I can think of no one more fitting to help the Lord with his work in paradise.
I wrote this for a good friend of mine that passed away a few years ago but I find it just as fitting now as it was then:
*In the end*
Do not be sad for me
For now my soul is finally free
So not shed a tear
Because now I have nothing to fear
I have left the pain of this world behind
However these things I ask you to keep in mind
Never hid your feelings for someone
For you never know when their days are done
Treat each other with respect
Do not outcast the reject
Love each other the way that I loved you
With love you can make it through
I will be looking down on you always
Waiting through all the days
Until it is your turn to ascend
And we can meet again
With Much Love,
Nicole Dellerman
Monday, April 20, 2009
Tucson Memories Of Bishop Howells
I was so sad not to be able to travel up for the funeral but I felt great comfort in writing down my memories of Bishop Howells. He was my seminary teacher for all four years I was in high school and my Bishop. He has been an important figure in my life.
In high school I had lunch with my bishop every day. Bishop Howells was called to be the bishop of our ward when I was a sophomore. In the stake some people called him the “teenage bishop” because he looked so young and because it seemed he was more comfortable with the youth than with adults sometimes. My friends and I ate lunch at the picnic table in front of the seminary almost every day and Howells would join us. Sometimes we would play games he made up, like the one where someone would name an object or a word and everyone else would try to be the first to recite a line from a song with that word or object in it. Other times we would just talk about things that were only interesting to teenagers. It seems to me that during much of the time I was in high school Bishop Howells knew more about me than any other adult.
Other games Howell’s liked: “Buck, Buck” from Fat Albert, wrestling, and “Samurai.” I can’t remember the rules to Samurai except that it was supposed to be a scripture mastery game, it involved a huge taped-up newspaper stick, whacking it and yelling “Samurai!!” which Howells did with gusto.
He seemed to me to have an incredible amount of energy and be incredibly humble at the same time. It is a combination I have never seen in another person.
There was a music morningside one time when a friend of his had come to speak to us. Afterward we asked Howells what they where planning to do before class started (there was about 90 min) and he said they were going back to his house to have breakfast. Without being invited Heather, Tyler and I climbed into the back of his blue Volvo. Bishop only looked a little annoyed for a minute then laughed and took us with them and fed us breakfast. I think that it was after that they always had bagels or doughnuts after the morningsides.
I remember Howells speaking very reverently of the mountains. He said that in the scriptures temples are called the Mountain of the Lord and that at times on Earth when no temples are available the Lord speaks to his prophets from mountains. He said that in his life he felt a spiritual reverence in the mountains.
Before seminary graduation Howells asked the female students not to hug him during the graduation out of respect for Amy. In the emotion of the moment more than a few of us forgot and tried to hug him anyway. He was very gracious about it. There was never any doubt how much he loved and adored his wife. He spoke about how much he admired her all the time.
I remember in class discussing the prophet Alma’s last words to his sons. I remember Howells saying that he related very much to Shiblon because of the advice his father gave him. Among other things Alma told his son to “bridle all his passions.” Howells said that this meant a lot to him because he considered himself to be a very passionate person. Alma didn’t tell his son to squash his passion or kill or destroy it but to bridle it like a rider does with a horse. A bridal on a horse gives the rider the ability to steer and lead the horse in the direction the horse should take. Howells said that Alma is telling us all to give righteous purpose to our passions.
In the short time he spent as an Institute teacher at the U of A he left an impression because he would hang out in the foyer on the couches talking to students during his breaks between classes, instead of in his office like many of the other teachers.
In my life he was the most powerful spiritual advisor I have ever had. I don’t expect another will match him.
With love, Andrea Messinger Dalton
In high school I had lunch with my bishop every day. Bishop Howells was called to be the bishop of our ward when I was a sophomore. In the stake some people called him the “teenage bishop” because he looked so young and because it seemed he was more comfortable with the youth than with adults sometimes. My friends and I ate lunch at the picnic table in front of the seminary almost every day and Howells would join us. Sometimes we would play games he made up, like the one where someone would name an object or a word and everyone else would try to be the first to recite a line from a song with that word or object in it. Other times we would just talk about things that were only interesting to teenagers. It seems to me that during much of the time I was in high school Bishop Howells knew more about me than any other adult.
Other games Howell’s liked: “Buck, Buck” from Fat Albert, wrestling, and “Samurai.” I can’t remember the rules to Samurai except that it was supposed to be a scripture mastery game, it involved a huge taped-up newspaper stick, whacking it and yelling “Samurai!!” which Howells did with gusto.
He seemed to me to have an incredible amount of energy and be incredibly humble at the same time. It is a combination I have never seen in another person.
There was a music morningside one time when a friend of his had come to speak to us. Afterward we asked Howells what they where planning to do before class started (there was about 90 min) and he said they were going back to his house to have breakfast. Without being invited Heather, Tyler and I climbed into the back of his blue Volvo. Bishop only looked a little annoyed for a minute then laughed and took us with them and fed us breakfast. I think that it was after that they always had bagels or doughnuts after the morningsides.
I remember Howells speaking very reverently of the mountains. He said that in the scriptures temples are called the Mountain of the Lord and that at times on Earth when no temples are available the Lord speaks to his prophets from mountains. He said that in his life he felt a spiritual reverence in the mountains.
Before seminary graduation Howells asked the female students not to hug him during the graduation out of respect for Amy. In the emotion of the moment more than a few of us forgot and tried to hug him anyway. He was very gracious about it. There was never any doubt how much he loved and adored his wife. He spoke about how much he admired her all the time.
I remember in class discussing the prophet Alma’s last words to his sons. I remember Howells saying that he related very much to Shiblon because of the advice his father gave him. Among other things Alma told his son to “bridle all his passions.” Howells said that this meant a lot to him because he considered himself to be a very passionate person. Alma didn’t tell his son to squash his passion or kill or destroy it but to bridle it like a rider does with a horse. A bridal on a horse gives the rider the ability to steer and lead the horse in the direction the horse should take. Howells said that Alma is telling us all to give righteous purpose to our passions.
In the short time he spent as an Institute teacher at the U of A he left an impression because he would hang out in the foyer on the couches talking to students during his breaks between classes, instead of in his office like many of the other teachers.
In my life he was the most powerful spiritual advisor I have ever had. I don’t expect another will match him.
With love, Andrea Messinger Dalton
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Amy and kids,
I wrote this right after I heard of Dan’s passing. I want you all to know how important he was to me . . .
It’s amazing. I’ve only known of Dan’s death for about one hour, but I realized that I have thought of him at least twice during the past day--even before I heard the horrible news. And I haven’t seen or talked to him for several months. That shows what a wonderful impact he has made on my life. I respect him more than I could ever describe. He is an awesome man.
I thought of him this morning while taking my kids to school. It was snowing and I saw three neighbor kids walking along. I wondered if I should offer them a ride. Then I thought of Dan and a discussion we had about how it really builds a child’s character when you allow them to do things like walk to school. He told me about how kids learn and explore during those times and how we needn’t do everything for our children. I really agreed with him and admired his way of thinking.
I thought of Dan last night when we were having family scripture study. We read in the Doctrine and Covenants about the restoration of the Aaronic Priesthood. Troy was explaining to our son Nathan that the ward holds a father and son’s campout each spring to commemorate that restoration, which took place in the springtime. When Spencer Howells was in my primary class, we talked about the Aaronic Priesthood, and he told our class that very same fact about the campout. That was the first time I’d learned that. He had been taught very well by his father.
Dan is probably the most genuine person I know. He says what he believes and gives no pretence. I loved hearing him speak in church. His words were always straight from his heart. I loved the emotions he showed, especially when talking about his family. He believed in families. Dan and I spoke in the same sacrament meeting in the spring three years ago. Our topic was motherhood. I’ll never forget that wonderful experience of sharing my thoughts and feelings about being a mother, then listening to a powerful sermon from him about the divine role of motherhood.
I have admired Dan’s relationship to Amy. It was always so neat to see the passion they shared for one another. I could see the love he had for Amy in his eyes. I remember him teaching a lesson once in Sunday school, and him mentioning how grateful he was in high school to have this gorgeous cheerleader (his future wife) pay attention to him. He really worships her and she loves him just as much. They could love each other and tease each other at the same time. It was wonderful.
Of all their children, I know Kathryn best. She was one of my young women. I was constantly in awe of her testimony and knowledge of the gospel. She is such a delightful girl. I remember her refusing to let me pay her for babysitting when we went to the temple. Last time Troy and I went out to dinner with Dan and Amy, Dan talked about all of the wonderful experiences Kathryn has been having in high school. He looked so proud and so protective of her.
He is the best example of a family patriarch. I remember finding a Book of Mormon in their car once. Amy told me they keep some in the car so their family could have their daily scripture study if they are driving home on a late evening and wouldn’t have time. I thought that was amazing!
Dan has a wonderful, subtle sense of humor. I loved to see him sitting on the stand in sacrament meeting as Amy trudged in with all of her kids, some still trying to get dressed. I also remember a time when one of our ward members, John Neff, was reading a scripture in Sunday school. He has this wonderful, deep voice that sounds like a professional book-on-tape reader. When he finished reading, Dan made a loud “Beep” sound. It was hilarious. He was hilarious.
Troy served in the bishopric with Dan and loved every moment with him. It was interesting that Dan had once been a bishop, but was then serving as a counselor. Yet it didn’t matter at all. He was a great mentor and never showed an ounce of pride or superiority. Troy really missed him when they moved. They had a special camaraderie.
Even though I didn’t have a day-to-day relationship with Dan, I feel like there is a big whole left in the world without him. He is just a one-of-a-kind. I really enjoyed just being in his presence. I love his Simon Cowell-like smile. (That’s a compliment by the way.) It was such a joy and pleasure just to be with him any time at all.
I really thought in some future day I would see him speaking as a general authority in general conference. He has that kind of spirit about him. I am deeply sad that I won’t enjoy him any more in this lifetime. I would really just love to go out to dinner with him and Amy once more. I have no question about the eternal nature of his family relationship and the ability of his incredible wife to continue to raise that family in faith and hope until they will reunite.
Love, Julie Thomson
I wrote this right after I heard of Dan’s passing. I want you all to know how important he was to me . . .
It’s amazing. I’ve only known of Dan’s death for about one hour, but I realized that I have thought of him at least twice during the past day--even before I heard the horrible news. And I haven’t seen or talked to him for several months. That shows what a wonderful impact he has made on my life. I respect him more than I could ever describe. He is an awesome man.
I thought of him this morning while taking my kids to school. It was snowing and I saw three neighbor kids walking along. I wondered if I should offer them a ride. Then I thought of Dan and a discussion we had about how it really builds a child’s character when you allow them to do things like walk to school. He told me about how kids learn and explore during those times and how we needn’t do everything for our children. I really agreed with him and admired his way of thinking.
I thought of Dan last night when we were having family scripture study. We read in the Doctrine and Covenants about the restoration of the Aaronic Priesthood. Troy was explaining to our son Nathan that the ward holds a father and son’s campout each spring to commemorate that restoration, which took place in the springtime. When Spencer Howells was in my primary class, we talked about the Aaronic Priesthood, and he told our class that very same fact about the campout. That was the first time I’d learned that. He had been taught very well by his father.
Dan is probably the most genuine person I know. He says what he believes and gives no pretence. I loved hearing him speak in church. His words were always straight from his heart. I loved the emotions he showed, especially when talking about his family. He believed in families. Dan and I spoke in the same sacrament meeting in the spring three years ago. Our topic was motherhood. I’ll never forget that wonderful experience of sharing my thoughts and feelings about being a mother, then listening to a powerful sermon from him about the divine role of motherhood.
I have admired Dan’s relationship to Amy. It was always so neat to see the passion they shared for one another. I could see the love he had for Amy in his eyes. I remember him teaching a lesson once in Sunday school, and him mentioning how grateful he was in high school to have this gorgeous cheerleader (his future wife) pay attention to him. He really worships her and she loves him just as much. They could love each other and tease each other at the same time. It was wonderful.
Of all their children, I know Kathryn best. She was one of my young women. I was constantly in awe of her testimony and knowledge of the gospel. She is such a delightful girl. I remember her refusing to let me pay her for babysitting when we went to the temple. Last time Troy and I went out to dinner with Dan and Amy, Dan talked about all of the wonderful experiences Kathryn has been having in high school. He looked so proud and so protective of her.
He is the best example of a family patriarch. I remember finding a Book of Mormon in their car once. Amy told me they keep some in the car so their family could have their daily scripture study if they are driving home on a late evening and wouldn’t have time. I thought that was amazing!
Dan has a wonderful, subtle sense of humor. I loved to see him sitting on the stand in sacrament meeting as Amy trudged in with all of her kids, some still trying to get dressed. I also remember a time when one of our ward members, John Neff, was reading a scripture in Sunday school. He has this wonderful, deep voice that sounds like a professional book-on-tape reader. When he finished reading, Dan made a loud “Beep” sound. It was hilarious. He was hilarious.
Troy served in the bishopric with Dan and loved every moment with him. It was interesting that Dan had once been a bishop, but was then serving as a counselor. Yet it didn’t matter at all. He was a great mentor and never showed an ounce of pride or superiority. Troy really missed him when they moved. They had a special camaraderie.
Even though I didn’t have a day-to-day relationship with Dan, I feel like there is a big whole left in the world without him. He is just a one-of-a-kind. I really enjoyed just being in his presence. I love his Simon Cowell-like smile. (That’s a compliment by the way.) It was such a joy and pleasure just to be with him any time at all.
I really thought in some future day I would see him speaking as a general authority in general conference. He has that kind of spirit about him. I am deeply sad that I won’t enjoy him any more in this lifetime. I would really just love to go out to dinner with him and Amy once more. I have no question about the eternal nature of his family relationship and the ability of his incredible wife to continue to raise that family in faith and hope until they will reunite.
Love, Julie Thomson
My first experience with Brother Howells was when Shad was in our nursery. Shad really struggled in nursery and Dan was always there with him. He frequently helping out with snacks and lessons. He was a very patient dad.
Of course, when I got called to be Scoutmaster I spent a lot more time with Dan. I was terrified when Dan asked me to be the Scoutmaster, but he helped me recognize the importance of the Scouting program in the lives of young men. As a new scoutmaster it was a struggled to get our troop established on sound scouting principles. Dan would frequently attend our Tuesday night activities to help with crowd control and provide encouragement. At the time we didn't divide into Scouts, Varsity, or Ventures so 17 boys would come each week. The support he offered me each week was probably the biggest reason I made it through those first two years. I am so grateful for his help. I am coming up on my five year mark as Scoutmaster and I credit Dan with a lot of the success our program has had and for helping me catch the scouting vision. Before the Howells left our ward he also nominated me for an award called the Second Miler Award. I didn't fully realize the significance of that award until recently. Only a handful of people get that award each year. I know that he valued what I was doing. He recognized the work I was putting into my calling. That meant the world to me that he would nominate me for such an award. I am so grateful he would take the time to honor me that way.
Dan was not only motivational but also helped with the logistical aspects of scouting. Our first week long scout camp was at Camp Frontier. We had 13 boys attend camp and 4 leaders. I was feeling a lot of stress trying to find drivers. He graciously drove his van full of scouts and equipment to East Fork of the Bear. The next year we went to Bear Lake Aquatics Base and he didn't hesitate to drive us there as well. I would tease him about his 15 passenger van being the scouts' shuttle.
For our April 2006 camp-out we went to Vernon Reservoir. Dan came with us and volunteered to drive. We took a canoe with us. After we got camp set up and were cooking dinner 2 of the more rambunctious scouts wanted to go canoeing. I told them that they couldn't go because there would be no supervision. Dan offered to provide the supervision. The three of them left. The rest of us ate dinner and were having a good time around the campfire. I decided to cook two hot dogs and take them and some chips down to Dan because they had been gone a really long time. When I got down to the reservoir I realized the reason they were still gone. The two boys wouldn't come back into shore. Dan and I eventually got them to come in. We were both pretty frustrated. At that point I gave Dan the dinner I had made for him. I was surprised and humbled when he gave each of those boys a hot dog and his chips. He really cared about them. That night we had a testimony meeting around the campfire. Dan's testimony to the young men was amazing. I do not recall all the words that he said, but I remember feeling the Spirit burn within me as it has during some of the most spiritual events of my life.
When I found out the Howells were moving from our ward I was devastated. Dan had been such a big part of Scouting in our ward that I felt some panic. I remember tearfully hugging him good-bye at church. I'm sure that he was caught off guard, but that is the kind of influence he had on me. I hope that his interactions with me were as meaningful. The impact that he had on my life will be everlasting. I am grateful that Lord allowed me to have these experiences with Dan.
Andrew Bracken
Of course, when I got called to be Scoutmaster I spent a lot more time with Dan. I was terrified when Dan asked me to be the Scoutmaster, but he helped me recognize the importance of the Scouting program in the lives of young men. As a new scoutmaster it was a struggled to get our troop established on sound scouting principles. Dan would frequently attend our Tuesday night activities to help with crowd control and provide encouragement. At the time we didn't divide into Scouts, Varsity, or Ventures so 17 boys would come each week. The support he offered me each week was probably the biggest reason I made it through those first two years. I am so grateful for his help. I am coming up on my five year mark as Scoutmaster and I credit Dan with a lot of the success our program has had and for helping me catch the scouting vision. Before the Howells left our ward he also nominated me for an award called the Second Miler Award. I didn't fully realize the significance of that award until recently. Only a handful of people get that award each year. I know that he valued what I was doing. He recognized the work I was putting into my calling. That meant the world to me that he would nominate me for such an award. I am so grateful he would take the time to honor me that way.
Dan was not only motivational but also helped with the logistical aspects of scouting. Our first week long scout camp was at Camp Frontier. We had 13 boys attend camp and 4 leaders. I was feeling a lot of stress trying to find drivers. He graciously drove his van full of scouts and equipment to East Fork of the Bear. The next year we went to Bear Lake Aquatics Base and he didn't hesitate to drive us there as well. I would tease him about his 15 passenger van being the scouts' shuttle.
For our April 2006 camp-out we went to Vernon Reservoir. Dan came with us and volunteered to drive. We took a canoe with us. After we got camp set up and were cooking dinner 2 of the more rambunctious scouts wanted to go canoeing. I told them that they couldn't go because there would be no supervision. Dan offered to provide the supervision. The three of them left. The rest of us ate dinner and were having a good time around the campfire. I decided to cook two hot dogs and take them and some chips down to Dan because they had been gone a really long time. When I got down to the reservoir I realized the reason they were still gone. The two boys wouldn't come back into shore. Dan and I eventually got them to come in. We were both pretty frustrated. At that point I gave Dan the dinner I had made for him. I was surprised and humbled when he gave each of those boys a hot dog and his chips. He really cared about them. That night we had a testimony meeting around the campfire. Dan's testimony to the young men was amazing. I do not recall all the words that he said, but I remember feeling the Spirit burn within me as it has during some of the most spiritual events of my life.
When I found out the Howells were moving from our ward I was devastated. Dan had been such a big part of Scouting in our ward that I felt some panic. I remember tearfully hugging him good-bye at church. I'm sure that he was caught off guard, but that is the kind of influence he had on me. I hope that his interactions with me were as meaningful. The impact that he had on my life will be everlasting. I am grateful that Lord allowed me to have these experiences with Dan.
Andrew Bracken
Dear Howells Family,
My heart just brakes for you knowing the great loss that you have had to suffer this week. I can't think of your family without getting tears in my eyes...to know what a wonderful, faithful, loving, kind family that you are, just makes me so sad that you have to go through this great trial in your life. However, I know without a doubt that you will get through this and that Heavenly Father will lighten your load, comfort you, and give you strength when you need it. I also know that your father/husband will be looking down on you all from above. The one memory of Brother Howells that I will always cherish most of all is the look on his face that he would get when he saw his family walk into Sacrament meeting. I LOVED watching him every sunday sit up on the stand with the Bishopric and just light up with love and happiness to see his sweet family that he obviously loved so very much! My husband and I both noticed that great love he had for his family the very first week we moved in. I know it's the same look that our Heavenly Father must have when He is watching over us and as we follow His plan.
Brother Howells was such a loving man! I will always be grateful for his warm welcome when we first moved in and for the way he would always smile or take the time to talk to us or shake our hand. He was and is such an example to so many!
I truly believe that some people are so prepared to return to their Heavenly Father, that they no longer need this life to progress. My Mother also lost her father when he was only 37...leaving my Grandmother with 7 children to raise on her own. I know it wasn't always easy for my Grandmother, especially since she never had the desire to remarry, but I am so grateful to her for staying strong and for raising the righteous children that she did and for blessing our lives with her amazing example. From what I know of my Grandpa, he was very Christlike and was prepared to return to his Savior. I can't think of anyone more like our Savior than your father/husband. I feel grateful for the chance to have known him and to learn from him. I also feel grateful to have had the chance to teach Caleb in Nursery and Sunbeams. It was easy to see and know that Caleb came from such a strong and loving family. He has always been the ideal little boy in my eyes and before I became a mother of two little boys of my own, I always dreamed of having a sweet, little boy like Caleb. I know for my boys to be like Caleb, I must do my part as a parent to teach my children and to help them know of our Heavenly Father just like your parents have done so well. Please remember the love that your earthly father and your Heavenly Father have for you...and know that they will be watching over you each and every day with love in their eyes, until you see them again!
With much love, Grady and Angela Howell (Amber Rose Ward)
My heart just brakes for you knowing the great loss that you have had to suffer this week. I can't think of your family without getting tears in my eyes...to know what a wonderful, faithful, loving, kind family that you are, just makes me so sad that you have to go through this great trial in your life. However, I know without a doubt that you will get through this and that Heavenly Father will lighten your load, comfort you, and give you strength when you need it. I also know that your father/husband will be looking down on you all from above. The one memory of Brother Howells that I will always cherish most of all is the look on his face that he would get when he saw his family walk into Sacrament meeting. I LOVED watching him every sunday sit up on the stand with the Bishopric and just light up with love and happiness to see his sweet family that he obviously loved so very much! My husband and I both noticed that great love he had for his family the very first week we moved in. I know it's the same look that our Heavenly Father must have when He is watching over us and as we follow His plan.
Brother Howells was such a loving man! I will always be grateful for his warm welcome when we first moved in and for the way he would always smile or take the time to talk to us or shake our hand. He was and is such an example to so many!
I truly believe that some people are so prepared to return to their Heavenly Father, that they no longer need this life to progress. My Mother also lost her father when he was only 37...leaving my Grandmother with 7 children to raise on her own. I know it wasn't always easy for my Grandmother, especially since she never had the desire to remarry, but I am so grateful to her for staying strong and for raising the righteous children that she did and for blessing our lives with her amazing example. From what I know of my Grandpa, he was very Christlike and was prepared to return to his Savior. I can't think of anyone more like our Savior than your father/husband. I feel grateful for the chance to have known him and to learn from him. I also feel grateful to have had the chance to teach Caleb in Nursery and Sunbeams. It was easy to see and know that Caleb came from such a strong and loving family. He has always been the ideal little boy in my eyes and before I became a mother of two little boys of my own, I always dreamed of having a sweet, little boy like Caleb. I know for my boys to be like Caleb, I must do my part as a parent to teach my children and to help them know of our Heavenly Father just like your parents have done so well. Please remember the love that your earthly father and your Heavenly Father have for you...and know that they will be watching over you each and every day with love in their eyes, until you see them again!
With much love, Grady and Angela Howell (Amber Rose Ward)
Dear Amy and children,
Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time of heartache and loss. We cannot express enough how much you touched our lives for the short time you were our neighbors.
Dan was such a powerful example of humble, sincere leadership. You could not meet a nicer man. It was evident through the many times he shared his testimony, of the love he has for his family and his strong faith in the gospel. He was always so willing to serve and dedicated his life to teaching what he knew was true.
We have missed your family on our street and always loved seeing you pile in your "big, white bus", as your kids called it to head off on a family outing, with all the kids waving to us from the back seat.
We had the privilege of teaching Spencer in his 8 year old primary class and we have never forgotten the comments and answers he would contribute during our classes. It was obvious he was born of goodly parents, who were teaching him so much at home. We commented that he was a mini Dan in the making and had strong grasp and love for the gospel for such a young age. Dan will be greatly missed.
We pray that Heavenly Father will provide strength and comfort to you in the coming days and that you will feel his peace and the love and support of those surrounding you. You are such wonderful examples to all who have had the privilege of knowing you. We count ourselves lucky to be among those, and want you to know how much we love you and are praying for each of you.
Love,
The Moody Family
Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time of heartache and loss. We cannot express enough how much you touched our lives for the short time you were our neighbors.
Dan was such a powerful example of humble, sincere leadership. You could not meet a nicer man. It was evident through the many times he shared his testimony, of the love he has for his family and his strong faith in the gospel. He was always so willing to serve and dedicated his life to teaching what he knew was true.
We have missed your family on our street and always loved seeing you pile in your "big, white bus", as your kids called it to head off on a family outing, with all the kids waving to us from the back seat.
We had the privilege of teaching Spencer in his 8 year old primary class and we have never forgotten the comments and answers he would contribute during our classes. It was obvious he was born of goodly parents, who were teaching him so much at home. We commented that he was a mini Dan in the making and had strong grasp and love for the gospel for such a young age. Dan will be greatly missed.
We pray that Heavenly Father will provide strength and comfort to you in the coming days and that you will feel his peace and the love and support of those surrounding you. You are such wonderful examples to all who have had the privilege of knowing you. We count ourselves lucky to be among those, and want you to know how much we love you and are praying for each of you.
Love,
The Moody Family
I remember Dan being able always making people feel at ease and comfortable. He had a laid back way to make people feel at ease through humor and genuine kindness. He was not judgmental and always wanted to serve and help others. As Ward Clerk, I remember meeting Dan at his house not knowing him too well yet to go do something church related. One of the younger kids let me in, and then disappeared-- I thought to tell their dad I was there. About 15 minutes later Dan came down (in non-church attire) surprised and said, “How long have you been here? Do you want some pizza?” just as pizza had been delivered. I declined on the pizza, but knew this was my type of guy—cool, laid back and easy going.
I can remember watching Dan as he would sit on the stand. As his family would come into sacrament meeting, Dan’s eyes would light up at the at the sight of his kids coming down the aisle. He wasn’t good at hiding his emotion. A big smile would cover his face, and on occasion watery eyes, and you could see his focus turn from whatever was going on to them. There was never any mistaking Dan’s love for his family. I remember many times Dan bearing his testimony, getting emotional and telling of his great love and appreciation for his family, and dear wife Amy.
Dan is a man I greatly admire and look up to. On many times while following his term as 2nd Counselor in the bishopric, I would ask myself, “What would Dan do?” I will continue to ask that as he was truly a great family man of Christ-like character.
---Mike Pugmire
I had the chance to serve with Dan in the Amber Rose ward while he was in the bishopric and I was the Relief Society President. We attended the same Ward Council and Welfare meetings. We worked as part of the group to organize and meet the needs of a newly formed ward. Dan had a strong testimony of the gospel. That would come out as he shared ideas and talked about ways to reach out to less-active members of the ward. Dan loved his family so much, especially his wife. I remember him saying how he loved going to the temple, but it was not the best date night, you don't even get to sit by your spouse. Amy did a Relief Society mini-class on meal preparation and she said that Dan helped her with her system of organizing meals, and he helped her come up with ideas to make it work. He was a devoted and caring husband and father. He supported Amy as she took an Art class, that gave her a chance to develop a talent and have some time for herself. Dan Howells was a wonderful example of how we should be living our life. I know this will live on in his children and generations to come.
--Erin Pugmire
I can remember watching Dan as he would sit on the stand. As his family would come into sacrament meeting, Dan’s eyes would light up at the at the sight of his kids coming down the aisle. He wasn’t good at hiding his emotion. A big smile would cover his face, and on occasion watery eyes, and you could see his focus turn from whatever was going on to them. There was never any mistaking Dan’s love for his family. I remember many times Dan bearing his testimony, getting emotional and telling of his great love and appreciation for his family, and dear wife Amy.
Dan is a man I greatly admire and look up to. On many times while following his term as 2nd Counselor in the bishopric, I would ask myself, “What would Dan do?” I will continue to ask that as he was truly a great family man of Christ-like character.
---Mike Pugmire
I had the chance to serve with Dan in the Amber Rose ward while he was in the bishopric and I was the Relief Society President. We attended the same Ward Council and Welfare meetings. We worked as part of the group to organize and meet the needs of a newly formed ward. Dan had a strong testimony of the gospel. That would come out as he shared ideas and talked about ways to reach out to less-active members of the ward. Dan loved his family so much, especially his wife. I remember him saying how he loved going to the temple, but it was not the best date night, you don't even get to sit by your spouse. Amy did a Relief Society mini-class on meal preparation and she said that Dan helped her with her system of organizing meals, and he helped her come up with ideas to make it work. He was a devoted and caring husband and father. He supported Amy as she took an Art class, that gave her a chance to develop a talent and have some time for herself. Dan Howells was a wonderful example of how we should be living our life. I know this will live on in his children and generations to come.
--Erin Pugmire
Amy-
I have so many fond memories of your family, we have missed you guys more than you know, everytime I look out the window I think of your boys up and out early in the morning going back and forth to Braxton's, Luke's, and the Mackay's houses. I will never forget though, that every morning when Dan left for work your kids would chase him down the street waving at him and telling him goodbye. The love your family shares with one another is remarkable, you and Dan have kept your kids close to you, loving you and respecting you. Your family has been a wonderful example to me and what I try to achieve in mine. Dan loved and totally adored you and he never kept that a secret, he was always so proud of you and proud to have you as his "trophy wife". We love you and your family, we ache for you and want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and will be always.
Love-
JR, Karen, Raeli, Jaeron, Bekah and Lily Masina
I have so many fond memories of your family, we have missed you guys more than you know, everytime I look out the window I think of your boys up and out early in the morning going back and forth to Braxton's, Luke's, and the Mackay's houses. I will never forget though, that every morning when Dan left for work your kids would chase him down the street waving at him and telling him goodbye. The love your family shares with one another is remarkable, you and Dan have kept your kids close to you, loving you and respecting you. Your family has been a wonderful example to me and what I try to achieve in mine. Dan loved and totally adored you and he never kept that a secret, he was always so proud of you and proud to have you as his "trophy wife". We love you and your family, we ache for you and want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and will be always.
Love-
JR, Karen, Raeli, Jaeron, Bekah and Lily Masina
Dear Howells Family,
We want you to know how much we love your family. We were so sad to hear of the tragic accident that took Dan away from you. But we took comfort in knowing of the plan of salvation and the eternal nature of the temple covenant that binds families together beyond this life.
Working with Dan in the bishopric was a great experience for me. Even though he had been a bishop before, he would defer to Bishop Peterson and showed him great respect. He frequently had insights and ideas for helping the people in the Amber Rose Ward. He loved the people in our ward and always wanted them to be better and improve their lives and come closer to Christ. His concern was for the welfare of their souls, a great example for us all to follow.
Kathryn was in our primary class during her last year in Primary. She was such a fun person to have in our class. She seemed to know the answers to all of the questions we asked and was very knowledgeable about the gospel. I think that is a great tribute to her parents and shows that she was taught well in her home.
We miss you being in our ward. Your family is so full of life, enthusiasm, and love. I hope that you will continue on in that way and continue to live your lives in the best way you can as a tribute to Dan.
With our love and prayers,
Gary and Shanna Olsen
We want you to know how much we love your family. We were so sad to hear of the tragic accident that took Dan away from you. But we took comfort in knowing of the plan of salvation and the eternal nature of the temple covenant that binds families together beyond this life.
Working with Dan in the bishopric was a great experience for me. Even though he had been a bishop before, he would defer to Bishop Peterson and showed him great respect. He frequently had insights and ideas for helping the people in the Amber Rose Ward. He loved the people in our ward and always wanted them to be better and improve their lives and come closer to Christ. His concern was for the welfare of their souls, a great example for us all to follow.
Kathryn was in our primary class during her last year in Primary. She was such a fun person to have in our class. She seemed to know the answers to all of the questions we asked and was very knowledgeable about the gospel. I think that is a great tribute to her parents and shows that she was taught well in her home.
We miss you being in our ward. Your family is so full of life, enthusiasm, and love. I hope that you will continue on in that way and continue to live your lives in the best way you can as a tribute to Dan.
With our love and prayers,
Gary and Shanna Olsen
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
A request....
I was not able to attend Dan's funeral. But I would love to see copy of the funeral handout. If anyone can scan it and post it, I would appreciate it. (Then you can delete this post). Thank you.
Kathryn's Tribute to Dan
A number of people have requested the transcript of the tribute that Kathryn (Dan's sister) gave at the funeral, so we decided this would be the best place to post this.
Tribute to Dan
Like all things in life, there is the bitter and the sweet, such is Dan’s passing. For all those who know and love him, our lives are sweeter, better, and uplifted by his influence. In the book The Road Less Traveled, M. Scott Peck defines love as: “The will to extend oneself for the purpose of nurturing another’s spiritual growth.” Dan loved WELL!
Danny took all of his purposes or roles very seriously. It was important to him to honorably fulfill his role as son, brother, husband, father and his callings to serve in the church.
As the oldest brother, Dan was very protective. As a young girl, I remember finding great comfort and safety in Dan’s presence. Each h of us sisters would often race for his bed after a bad dream. Dan was also protective about who we dated. He would relentlessly grill our dates (and then relay to us that none of our dates were good enough for his sisters…and more recently, his daughter).
As siblings, we have all lived out of state at one time or another. Dan didn’t let distance get in the way of being close. I could always depend on, and look forward to, a call from Dan on Sunday evenings.
Dan was such a tease! He reveled in getting a rise out of others.
Danny and I Shared a love of debate It didn’t matter much the subject. It was the thrill of creating a strong argument. One of us would make a statement and the other would jump in with the opposing view. Dan’s amazing, quick mind and thinking were inspiring. I will truly miss wrestling one another with words.
Dan lived in the present. He made the most of each day. His life was an example of the old adage, “work hard, play hard.” When working on a project, he worked HARD and was a motivating force to finish so there would be time left to play.
With his deep desire to fulfill his responsibility as the oldest brother and lead by example, he served somewhat as a compass for each of us siblings. Talking things over with Dan always helped me to see my direction more clearly. Dan’s concern for each of us partnered with his solid foundation rooted in truth, led him to give advice carefully and well.
I believe that reading Dan’s mission letters that bore witness of a deepening love for the Savior and the people he served, inspired all four of his younger siblings to serve missions. Dan’s standing before the Lord was his life’s focus. As his younger sister, it was always easy for me to believe in an older brother, our Savior, who knew me and loved me perfectly. Although Dan was imperfect, from his little sister’s view, his love was constant, his intentions pure, his heart loyal, and his desires for others were filled with charity. My testimony of the Savior and His restored gospel was seeded in Dan’s example and the many tender conversations we had.
I have no words to describe the relationship between my brothers, Dan and Paul. To be described as ‘one soul’ may be too close, ‘the best of friends’ is too far apart. They finished each other’s sentences, knew what the other was thinking without words, had the same warped sense of humor, and were strong where the other was weak.
I have loved watching Dan as a father. Tickling, teasing, wrestling, teaching, testifying, serving, comforting, working, hugging, laughing and loving! I believe there are four things Dan would want his children to know. First, to honor and cherish their mother. Second, to live in the safety and peace the gospel provides. Third, to find the joy in each and every day. And fourth,to know and trust in his undying love, and that their family will be together forever.
Last of all, as Dan’s sisters and brother, we are most grateful for the woman Dan married. Amy is a true helpmate. She is the great woman behind this great man. She is the gentle force that in many ways has made Dan who he has become. Their love for one another is abundant and eternal. Dan and Amy built their love, relationship, and family upon the rock, our Savior Jesus Christ. I am so grateful for the promise of eternal families.
[D&C 132:46] I testify to the truthfulness of this promise. Dan and Amy’s family was ‘bound’ on earth by priesthood authority and is and will be ‘bound’ in the eternities. This is not goodbye. This separation is increased motivation for each of us to live in a manner pleasing to our Heavenly Father that we might be reunited with Danny on the other side.
- Kathryn Howells Hart
Tribute to Dan
Like all things in life, there is the bitter and the sweet, such is Dan’s passing. For all those who know and love him, our lives are sweeter, better, and uplifted by his influence. In the book The Road Less Traveled, M. Scott Peck defines love as: “The will to extend oneself for the purpose of nurturing another’s spiritual growth.” Dan loved WELL!
Danny took all of his purposes or roles very seriously. It was important to him to honorably fulfill his role as son, brother, husband, father and his callings to serve in the church.
As the oldest brother, Dan was very protective. As a young girl, I remember finding great comfort and safety in Dan’s presence. Each h of us sisters would often race for his bed after a bad dream. Dan was also protective about who we dated. He would relentlessly grill our dates (and then relay to us that none of our dates were good enough for his sisters…and more recently, his daughter).
As siblings, we have all lived out of state at one time or another. Dan didn’t let distance get in the way of being close. I could always depend on, and look forward to, a call from Dan on Sunday evenings.
Dan was such a tease! He reveled in getting a rise out of others.
Danny and I Shared a love of debate It didn’t matter much the subject. It was the thrill of creating a strong argument. One of us would make a statement and the other would jump in with the opposing view. Dan’s amazing, quick mind and thinking were inspiring. I will truly miss wrestling one another with words.
Dan lived in the present. He made the most of each day. His life was an example of the old adage, “work hard, play hard.” When working on a project, he worked HARD and was a motivating force to finish so there would be time left to play.
With his deep desire to fulfill his responsibility as the oldest brother and lead by example, he served somewhat as a compass for each of us siblings. Talking things over with Dan always helped me to see my direction more clearly. Dan’s concern for each of us partnered with his solid foundation rooted in truth, led him to give advice carefully and well.
I believe that reading Dan’s mission letters that bore witness of a deepening love for the Savior and the people he served, inspired all four of his younger siblings to serve missions. Dan’s standing before the Lord was his life’s focus. As his younger sister, it was always easy for me to believe in an older brother, our Savior, who knew me and loved me perfectly. Although Dan was imperfect, from his little sister’s view, his love was constant, his intentions pure, his heart loyal, and his desires for others were filled with charity. My testimony of the Savior and His restored gospel was seeded in Dan’s example and the many tender conversations we had.
I have no words to describe the relationship between my brothers, Dan and Paul. To be described as ‘one soul’ may be too close, ‘the best of friends’ is too far apart. They finished each other’s sentences, knew what the other was thinking without words, had the same warped sense of humor, and were strong where the other was weak.
I have loved watching Dan as a father. Tickling, teasing, wrestling, teaching, testifying, serving, comforting, working, hugging, laughing and loving! I believe there are four things Dan would want his children to know. First, to honor and cherish their mother. Second, to live in the safety and peace the gospel provides. Third, to find the joy in each and every day. And fourth,to know and trust in his undying love, and that their family will be together forever.
Last of all, as Dan’s sisters and brother, we are most grateful for the woman Dan married. Amy is a true helpmate. She is the great woman behind this great man. She is the gentle force that in many ways has made Dan who he has become. Their love for one another is abundant and eternal. Dan and Amy built their love, relationship, and family upon the rock, our Savior Jesus Christ. I am so grateful for the promise of eternal families.
[D&C 132:46] I testify to the truthfulness of this promise. Dan and Amy’s family was ‘bound’ on earth by priesthood authority and is and will be ‘bound’ in the eternities. This is not goodbye. This separation is increased motivation for each of us to live in a manner pleasing to our Heavenly Father that we might be reunited with Danny on the other side.
- Kathryn Howells Hart
A Hero Among Us
This is a letter I wrote and posted on my own blog when I heard the news:
Dear Brother Howells,
My heart was saddened to learn that you were taken from this earth so unexpectedly. It weighed even heavier knowing that I missed the chance to thank you in this life for the lasting impact you made on mine. I last saw you at my wedding reception 6 ½ years ago, and I should have thanked you then. I can only hope to have the chance one day to tell you, but for now I thank your family for sharing you with so many of us.
I was a sophomore at CDO during your first year of teaching seminary there (1996). I think all of us were a little unsure about getting a new teacher, but you won everyone over pretty quickly. Your enthusiasm for the Gospel was contagious, and your ability to make studying it fun was just what we all needed. It was through studying the Book of Mormon in seminary that year that I first really gained a testimony of the Gospel. Your own personal example of kindness has stayed with me through the years. You had an ability to show genuine interest in each of us as individuals, which for me personally made me feel important during a time when I was struggling and really needed a boost. You were like an extra father figure to me, and to many of us.
Your dedication to and love for your family is also something I will always remember. You couldn’t talk about your wife without completely lighting up, and you kept a framed poem she had written to you in your office. Surely your children have grown up a lot in the past ten years, but I remember your two darling little girls coming to visit you at Seminary, and how you and they both would light up every single time. I knew that I wanted to live my life in such a way that I could have a family like that someday.
All I have left to say is thank you. Thank you for giving of yourself, for living in an exemplary way, for loving those around you, for changing lives. I thank your family for sharing your light with us, and my heart goes out to them as I know they will be sorely missing you along with the rest of us.
Til we meet again,
Jeanine Kramer Benson
Dear Brother Howells,
My heart was saddened to learn that you were taken from this earth so unexpectedly. It weighed even heavier knowing that I missed the chance to thank you in this life for the lasting impact you made on mine. I last saw you at my wedding reception 6 ½ years ago, and I should have thanked you then. I can only hope to have the chance one day to tell you, but for now I thank your family for sharing you with so many of us.
I was a sophomore at CDO during your first year of teaching seminary there (1996). I think all of us were a little unsure about getting a new teacher, but you won everyone over pretty quickly. Your enthusiasm for the Gospel was contagious, and your ability to make studying it fun was just what we all needed. It was through studying the Book of Mormon in seminary that year that I first really gained a testimony of the Gospel. Your own personal example of kindness has stayed with me through the years. You had an ability to show genuine interest in each of us as individuals, which for me personally made me feel important during a time when I was struggling and really needed a boost. You were like an extra father figure to me, and to many of us.
Your dedication to and love for your family is also something I will always remember. You couldn’t talk about your wife without completely lighting up, and you kept a framed poem she had written to you in your office. Surely your children have grown up a lot in the past ten years, but I remember your two darling little girls coming to visit you at Seminary, and how you and they both would light up every single time. I knew that I wanted to live my life in such a way that I could have a family like that someday.
All I have left to say is thank you. Thank you for giving of yourself, for living in an exemplary way, for loving those around you, for changing lives. I thank your family for sharing your light with us, and my heart goes out to them as I know they will be sorely missing you along with the rest of us.
Til we meet again,
Jeanine Kramer Benson
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Aloha From Hawaii
Dear Amy,
You don't know me and I don't know your family either but I read about Dan on Sugar Doodle and just wanted to send our condolences to you and your family. He looks like a wonderful husband and father and from the stories already shared we know he has had an impact on many, many lives. We hope that you will keep up the blog on Dan, your children, and yourself.
As a hawaiian, it is part of our tradition to sing "aloha oe" to those who are departing or those who have departed. Aloha Oe means farewell. We wanted to share the words with you..........
Aloha oe, aloha oe (farewell to you)
E keonaona noho i ka lipo (Charming one that dwells above)
One fond embrace, a ho'i a'e au (One fond embrace, ere we part)
Until we meet again. (Until we meet again)
We pray you will find comfort and peace.
Aloha,
Our family in Hawaii
You don't know me and I don't know your family either but I read about Dan on Sugar Doodle and just wanted to send our condolences to you and your family. He looks like a wonderful husband and father and from the stories already shared we know he has had an impact on many, many lives. We hope that you will keep up the blog on Dan, your children, and yourself.
As a hawaiian, it is part of our tradition to sing "aloha oe" to those who are departing or those who have departed. Aloha Oe means farewell. We wanted to share the words with you..........
Aloha oe, aloha oe (farewell to you)
E keonaona noho i ka lipo (Charming one that dwells above)
One fond embrace, a ho'i a'e au (One fond embrace, ere we part)
Until we meet again. (Until we meet again)
We pray you will find comfort and peace.
Aloha,
Our family in Hawaii
Monday, April 13, 2009
Memorial Video
Please feel free to watch the video here, or if you would like to download the video, click on the title (within the video frame) to go to the Vimeo page. Once there, scroll down the right sidebar until you see the gray header "Downloads." The file is formatted M4V (iTunes) is 640x360, and 327.46MB (bigger download).
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Audio Files of Funeral Services
Here are the audio recordings of the funeral services. Please feel free to listen to them here or download them to your computer/iPod to listen to them.
Family Prayer
MP3 2.7MB 3:53 Minutes
[download] (right click and "save as")
Funeral Service
MP3 62.8MB 1:31:28 Minutes
[download] (right click and "save as")
Grave Dedication
MP3 1.2MB 1:41 Minutes
[download] (right click and "save as")
Family Prayer
MP3 2.7MB 3:53 Minutes
[download] (right click and "save as")
Funeral Service
MP3 62.8MB 1:31:28 Minutes
[download] (right click and "save as")
Grave Dedication
MP3 1.2MB 1:41 Minutes
[download] (right click and "save as")
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Portrait
Here is the photograph that we used for Dan's obituary and funeral program--with a few improvements to the background and with higher resolution. We are all so lucky that Kristen Howells Curtis snapped such a great photo of Dan before Christmas, then had the insight to send it to me in time to include in Dan's obituary.
My hope is that this version will be a meaningful photo that anyone can take with them. Clicking on the photo will open a bigger version of it in another browser tab. For PC users, right-click on that bigger photo and select "Save Image As..." (Sorry Mac users--someone else will need to help with instructions.)
Staring at this image of Danny (as I always knew him) while working on it has been an uplifting thing for me. I loved this guy--he is a lifelong hero for me. And you can see why when you look at his face that is so full of Light and Goodness.
- Cousin Dave Carlston
P.S., I am printing 5 x 7's of this photo for Amy/kids, Spence/Annie/their kids. If you would like an even higher resolution version of this photograph (i.e., more suitable for printing) please let me know.
Thursday, April 9, 2009
It was humbling to see the outpouring of love, concern and support that came from our high school friends all across the country. Cami (Palmer) Trapp created this beautiful fitting tribute to Dan, in our behalf. Notice the hanging lantern with the 'candle' inside. Dan never failed to let his 'light so shine'. He was a tremendous example and friend to each of us. Our love, sympathy and prayers remain constant with you.
My heart is so full as I pause to reflect on Dan, Amy, their beautiful family, the Howell's and the Ereksons. I have so many special memories that span more than 30 years.
I remember tagging along with Dan and Amy a lot in high school. I remember one night in particular we were at the Howell's home. It was a beautiful, clear night. Dan, Amy and I were just sitting outside talking into the late hours, feeling the gentle warm breeze, gazing at the stars. I remember being so struck by the overwhelming feeling of love between them. It was tangible, poignant and real. And so it has been ever since, and it has grown to include their beautiful children. This temporary 'separation' will not diminish that.
I am so grateful for the love and friendship we have shared all these many years. I am grateful for the knowledge that this life is but a small moment in the spans of eternity, and that families are forever.
I will miss Dan, I will miss his infectious laugh, his silliness, his humility and compassion, and his big bear hugs. I, like so many others am a better person for having known him. He brought out the best in everyone and set such a remarkable example for us.
My sweet Amy, please know that I am here for you, and that I love you... always.
All my love,
Kristy (McRae) Witt
Monday, April 6, 2009
LDS Primary Posters Blog for Dan
A friend from my mission in New Mexico shared this link with me for another tribute to Dan.
LDSPrimaryPosters.Blogspot.com there are some small world connections coming together here.
What a great man in Danny Howells!
-Buff Carlston (Howells cousin)
LDSPrimaryPosters.Blogspot.com there are some small world connections coming together here.
What a great man in Danny Howells!
-Buff Carlston (Howells cousin)
Sunday, April 5, 2009
Together Forever
Dan was such a great husband, father, and friend. I remember when they lived in Herriman, he would always show his family how much he loved them. I know that it was his time to go and all of his family understands that. It's really good to know the Gospel and that family's can be together forever. And I know that all the kids and Amy will never forget him, nobody will. "Once a family, ALWAYS a family."
Dallas McCloy
Dallas McCloy
Dan was an excellent example
Dan was the eldest grandson, and as such was a great example to all of us. Dan had the unique ability to create a personal relationship with each of his cousins. I felt genuine concern, interest, and love from Dan. Dan was a great hugger. I looked forward to seeing him at every family party and getting a hug from him. He had a contagious, deep laugh.
Love,
Allyson (White) Frankman
dan
dan was a good man and he loved his family so much and other people too as far as in herriman utah and we will miss him. riley thompson
Saturday, April 4, 2009
A follower first
Dan was a natural leader but made him great in my eyes was his ability to follow. He would often sit back enjoying the conversation and then share input beyond his years. I enjoyed sitting in bishopric meetings with him where you could witness his meekness and wise counsel firsthand. He was a careful listener and a wise counselor.
He had great pride in doing things himself from completing a basement to putting a home up for sale. Even with a busy schedule I remember him installing slate tile in his basement bathroom inclusive of a tub surround. I'll remember with fondness working with him on the last bit of this project and the cleanup --such a positive attitude. It was easy to see the pride in his eyes upon tackling a job like that. His leadership ability shown through when on moving day he organized a long line of volunteers from the basement to the garage as we shifted food storage from basement to trailer in assembly line style (our knees and backs thanked him for that). His trust in and gratitude towards me will be a forever memory. I'm among the fortunate that crossed his family's path. I was too choked up at the viewing to share my thoughts with Amy and Kathryn, but I sure love the Howells family. John (Shawnell) Larsen
He had great pride in doing things himself from completing a basement to putting a home up for sale. Even with a busy schedule I remember him installing slate tile in his basement bathroom inclusive of a tub surround. I'll remember with fondness working with him on the last bit of this project and the cleanup --such a positive attitude. It was easy to see the pride in his eyes upon tackling a job like that. His leadership ability shown through when on moving day he organized a long line of volunteers from the basement to the garage as we shifted food storage from basement to trailer in assembly line style (our knees and backs thanked him for that). His trust in and gratitude towards me will be a forever memory. I'm among the fortunate that crossed his family's path. I was too choked up at the viewing to share my thoughts with Amy and Kathryn, but I sure love the Howells family. John (Shawnell) Larsen
Dearest Amy and Children,
Words cannot express my feelings and broken heart over the events of this past week. I have been very close this wonderful family for over 30 years and count them as my dearest friends. Ann and Spencer have supported me through difficult times in the past and it breaks my heart seeing the sorrow they and you are experiencing. Their children are almost like my own.
Danny was always such a darling young man. His smile would literally light up a room! I remember when he left for his mission and the two of you were dating. When he returned home from his mission, I remember taking the Howells family to the airport in my big suburban to pick him up so everyone could go together in the same car. I will never forget it.
My children remember Danny teaching them how to ride horses at their cabin on Thousand Peaks Ranch. He was always so patient and careful with them. We had great times together there when our children were growing up.
Ann has always kept me up on the news on her family over the years. She was so proud that Dan was called as a Bishop in Arizona and his experiences as a Seminary teacher. She has always spoke so highly of you Amy, and what a wonderful wife and mother you have always been. It is a joy for a parent to see their children happily married. Your marriage brought much joy to both Ann and Spencer.
The funeral services yesterday were so uplifting and tender. It was a beautiful tribute to Dan and to you.
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Brenda
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Tribute to an Amazing Man!
Anyone who had the chance to be around Dan Howells would be aware immediately of his genuine love for his family and the Lord. He lives the things he teaches. He adored his beautiful Amy and was proud beyond words of his "quiver" full of children. He was ready at a moments notice to serve with boots and work gloves on or by cinching up a tie and grabbing for his vial of consecrated oil. So many wonderful, funny, tender, inspiring, happy, touching stories are out there in so many lives that need to be gathered and told. Our prayer in setting up this Blog is to give a forum to share them in. We are planning to bind them into a book for Amy and their children to remember him by so share as many stories as you want to.
We love you Dan! We love you Amy, Kathryn, Mary, Hannah, Spencer, Shad and Caleb!
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
The "Kiss'n Cousins"
Over the past couple of days I have been flooded with childhood memories of my sweet cousin Dan. My entire childhood, especially memories of our summers at the cabin have become so clear and vivid to me. I am so grateful for these memories and will always cherish them more than I ever realized. Dan is a man of great strength, love and contagious happiness. I can hear his voice in my mind saying "I love you sooo much Ang", feel his strong, long hugs, and see his happy face so clearly. This great man will be missed dearly, but never forgotten... much love to his sweet wife that I love so much and his beautiful family. They will be in our daily prayers.
Love forever....Angie Howells Healy
Love forever....Angie Howells Healy
Dan will be missed!
I came across this photo when we were gathering some stuff for the service and this pretty much sums up how Dan has impacted his family's life...someone always wanting to teach, guide and lead his family. I know he'll be missed greatly but has provided a sure footing for each.
-Bob
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Seminary Council - BHS 1986
The first memory I have of Dan was in high school...we were on the seminary council together during our senior year. We had fun retreats up at the Howells cabin - fishing, riding horses, and deep discussions. Dan brought so much love and enthusiasm to our group. I'll never forget his kindness to all the students and an overwhelming attitude of service. I have continued to stay close to Dan and Amy for the past 23 years and have seen his life continue to exemplify these tributes. When I think of charity, kindness and a genuine concern for others...I think of him. Love, Kari Holladay Butters
Monday, March 30, 2009
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